Hey everyone,
I’m feeling really lost and could use some advice. My family’s going through a tough time because of a betting app my mom got hooked on. We’re now in debt for 96 lakh rupees (about $116,000 USD). It’s a huge amount and I’m scared about what’s going to happen to us.
The worst part is my mom’s not talking anymore. She’s completely shut down and won’t even look at us. I don’t know how to help her or what to do next. Has anyone dealt with something like this before? How do you even start to fix such a massive debt?
I’m worried about our future and don’t want to lose our home. Any advice on dealing with gambling addiction or debt counseling would be really appreciated. I’m just a kid and feel so overwhelmed by all of this. Thanks for listening.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this difficult situation. Gambling addiction can have devastating effects on families. While I haven’t personally experienced it, I’ve seen how it can impact people.
First, try to encourage your mom to seek professional help for her addiction. There are counselors and support groups specializing in gambling issues. For the debt, look into credit counseling services or debt consolidation options. They may be able to negotiate with creditors.
Don’t be afraid to reach out to other family members or trusted adults for support. You shouldn’t have to shoulder this burden alone at your age. Remember, this isn’t your fault.
Stay strong and take care of yourself during this stressful time. wishing you and your family the best as you work through this chalenge.
man, that’s rough. try gettin your mom to open up, maybe a letter if talkin ain’t workin. check out gamblers anonymous and a financial advisor for debt help. reach out to friends, you’re not alone. hang in there, kid.
Oh man, my heart goes out to you and your family. 
This is such a rough situation to be in, especially at your age.
I’ve seen how gambling can mess people up, and it’s no joke. Your mom’s probably feeling a ton of shame right now, which is why she’s shut down. But you guys need to tackle this together.
Have you thought about reaching out to a gambling addiction hotline? They might have some solid advice on how to approach your mom and get her the help she needs. And for the debt stuff, maybe look into local financial advisors who deal with situations like this? Some offer free initial consultations.
Don’t forget to take care of yourself in all this chaos, okay? It’s not on you to fix everything. Lean on friends, talk to a school counselor if you can. You need support too.
Sending you all the good vibes. You’ve got this, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Keep us posted if you need more support!