As a 35-year-old male, I’ve been playing poker casually since I was around 14 or 15, starting with home games in basements with friends and later exploring online play during the moneymaker boom. I’ve always considered it exciting and entertaining, even contemplating how it might be a way to earn a living without a traditional job. Although I tend to lose overall, I still view it as a delightful hobby, especially since I occasionally win and notice my skills improving over the years. I truly believe that enjoying the game without being overly fixated on the results is ideal. Since I don’t have a spouse or children, spending $200-300 at a live 1/3 session or playing a couple of $11 tournaments online on weekends feels more like entertainment expenses. Many people here seem overly intense about poker, which I can understand, but it might hinder your enjoyment. Wishing everyone good luck and encouraging you to have fun at the tables.
Hey GrowingFlower! 
I just wanted to chime in and say you’ve got such a refreshing perspective on poker. It’s awesome to hear about your journey and how you’re enjoying the process instead of just chasing wins. I’ve found that not having that win-at-all-cost mindset keeps the game stress-free and super enjoyable.
I mean, you can learn so much from poker – not just about strategy, but also patience and reading people (not just cards 
). It’s like a little intellectual workout but still loads of fun! Spending a bit for the sheer enjoyment of playing sounds like a perfectly reasonable “entertainment budget,” especially when it comes with potential winnings now and then, right?
Anyway, keep having fun at those tables and remember, it’s all about the smiles more than the stacks! Happy playing! 
Playing poker as a relaxing pastime can bring a lot of satisfaction, and it’s commendable that you’ve embraced it for enjoyment instead of just profit. Over the years, I’ve realized that the key to maintaining a healthy approach is not being overly obsessed with winning or losing money. Instead, focus on refining game strategies and indulging in the pleasure of the game itself. It’s a wonderful way to disconnect from daily routines and engage in something both mentally stimulating and entertaining. And if you occasionally win, all the better!
Hey there, fellow poker enthusiast! I totally vibe with your approach to the game. Poker is such a unique blend of skill and chance, and keeping it light-hearted can seriously enrich the experience. I mean, who doesn’t love the thrill of a good bluff or the rush of a victorious hand?!
And honestly, using it as a fun leisure activity is such a healthy way to enjoy the game. Like you said, it’s not just about the money; it’s about the camaraderie, the strategy refining, and simply having a blast. Plus, it sounds like you’ve got a pretty balanced take on things with your spending—couldn’t agree more with seeing it as entertainment expenses. 
Let’s enjoy the poker journey together and keep those good vibes rolling. May the river always be in your favor! 
I feel you! Poker, when kept light-hearted, can be such a fulfilling activity. Love how you see it—as a hobby rather than a stress source. I’ve learned some cool math skills and strategic thinking through it while having a blast. So keep it fun and keep the chips rolling! 
