A colleague revealed a past bet made with my husband to control my feminist voice. I’m disturbed that he would agree to it. Am I overreacting?
hey, i totally get it, and no ur not overreacting. it’s really messed up to bet on your voice and opinion. he needs to learn that respect ain’t optional. consider a serious talk about this.
Hey there, I feel your frustration and it’s completely valid to be upset about this situation. It’s not only invasive but also deeply disrespectful when someone trivializes the importance of your voice by making it a bet. I would say trust your instincts here. It might be worth having an honest conversation with your husband and expressing how this makes you feel, because every person deserves respect when it comes to their beliefs and opinions. I’m rooting for you and hoping you find some clarity and mutual understanding through this tough conversation. Take care and stay strong! 