Hey everyone, I need some advice. My mom recently got into playing poker online and she’s been leaving notes all over the place to remind herself of game strategies. It’s kind of cute, but I’m a bit worried she might be getting too obsessed. Has anyone else dealt with a parent suddenly getting really into online gambling? How did you handle it? I want to make sure she’s just having fun and not developing a problem. Any tips on how to approach this sensitively would be great. Thanks!
Hey there Skyler78! 
No need to panic just yet, your mom’s new hobby sounds pretty harmless at the moment. My dad went through a similar phase with online chess - sticky notes everywhere! 
It’s awesome she’s found something that keeps her mind sharp. Maybe you could join her for a game sometime? Could be a fun way to bond and see how she’s doing with it.
If you’re still worried, why not suggest a family game night with regular cards? Mix it up with some gin rummy or cribbage. That way, she gets her card fix without the online stuff.
Just keep things casual and fun. If it does start looking like more than a hobby, you can always chat with her about it then. For now, sounds like your mom’s just having a blast! 
I’ve seen this situation before with my uncle. It started innocently enough, but quickly spiraled into a real problem.
The key is to address it early and gently. Try to understand why she’s drawn to online poker - is it the social aspect, the thrill, or something else? once you know that, you can suggest healthier alternatives that fulfill the same need.
Maybe introduce her to local poker clubs or non-gambling card games. Also, keep an eye on her finances if possible. Set up regular check-ins to discuss her hobby and ensure it’s not impacting her life negatively. Remember, addiction can sneak up on anyone, so stay vigilant but supportive. good luck handling this delicate situation with your mom.
hey, my grandma got into online poker too. she started leaving sticky notes everywhere with poker terms lol. it’s cool she’s having fun, but maybe keep an eye on how much time/money she’s spending? could suggest some fun non-gambling card games to play together if ur worried. just be chill about it tho, dont wanna make her feel judged ya know?