I found my mom’s hidden online poker notes accidentally. I’m puzzled and worried. Has anyone else dealt with secret gambling habits by a parent?
i have been through a somewhat similar situation where a relative hid signs of compulsive gambling. in my experiece, a direct confrontation may lead to more tension than clarity. instead, try to discreetly monitor any signs of financial or emotional strain. if you feel the issue is worsening, exploring counseling options could help both parties address underlying concerns. it is vital to balance care for your mother’s wellbeing with attention to your own emotional needs, ensuring you remain supported throughout any difficult discussions.
Hey FelixThunder56, sorry to hear you’re in this situation. It’s definitely a tricky one. 
I’ve been there, sorta. My aunt had a thing for scratch-off tickets that got out of hand. It’s tough when it’s someone close to you, right?
Maybe try casually bringing up the topic of online poker with your mom? See how she reacts. If she gets defensive, that might be a sign there’s more going on.
Whatever you do, don’t blame yourself, okay? This isn’t on you. And remember, there are people out there who can help - both for your mom and for you. Sending good vibes your way, hope things work out! 
dude, that’s rough. my dad had a similar thing goin on with sports betting. it messed up our family pretty bad. maybe try talkin to her about it? or get some help from a counselor if ur not sure how to handle it. good luck man